Who Will Love Me Now?God's embrace after divorce.
Healing isn't about getting your old life back. It's about discovering the life God still has for you.
Why This Book
Your marriage is over. But your story isn't.
Divorce devastates. It shatters your identity, your faith, your future. You wake up wondering who you are now, whether God still loves you, and if you'll ever feel whole again. This workbook meets you there and walks with you toward the life God still has for you.
You lost more than a person
You don't only lose a spouse. You lose the future you were building. Healing begins with reclaiming who you are in Christ.
You are not invisible
The church doesn't always know how to respond to divorce, and people are left feeling unseen. This is a safe, grace-filled place to be honest about the pain.
Love and purpose remain
Your story isn't over. Love, calling, and joy still exist after divorce. That's the redemption this workbook is always pointing toward.
A Gentle Path Through Grief
The Four Healing Tasks
A hands-on path to work through your loss and begin rebuilding your life, one step at a time.
Task 01Accept the Reality
Naming the loss honestly, without minimizing it or pretending, is the first brave step toward healing.
Task 02Process the Pain
This is space to move through the pain with God and safe people instead of avoiding it.
Task 03Adjust to Life
Rebuild the rhythms of daily life one honest step at a time, including your identity in Christ, finances, co-parenting, and faith.
Task 04Keep or Break Routines & Habits
Keep the patterns that are healthy, release the ones that aren't, and build new habits for the life ahead of you.
A Gentle Check-In
Where are you in your healing?
Five quick questions. There are no wrong answers. Just a little clarity and a next step that meets you right where you are.
Inside the Workbook
Don't just read about healing. Practice it.
Healing is both an internal and external process. It includes biblical forgiveness and reclaiming your identity in Christ alongside the practical work of finances, co-parenting, and rebuilding a life. More than 160 interactive elements guide you the whole way.
- Guided journaling
- Reflection questions
- Self-assessments
- Action steps
- Biblical prayers
- Personal declarations
- Worksheets & planning exercises
- Quick-reference index
Designed for individuals and groups, including self-study, counseling, and church recovery groups.
A Look Inside
Guided prompts, honest self-assessments, and space to breathe.
Every chapter pairs biblical truth with practical psychology, including reflection questions, self-assessments, and room to write your way toward healing at your own pace.
"Am I ready?" "Where am I angry?" The workbook asks the questions that actually move you forward.
A few sample pages from inside the workbook
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Practical Wisdom From Two Trusted Voices
The Authors
Jimmy Evans and John Andersen have walked with hundreds of men and women through the wreckage of divorce and watched them rebuild. Combining biblical truth with practical psychology, they've created the roadmap you need for what comes next.
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For Churches & Ministries
A ready-made pathway to walk people through divorce recovery.
The church doesn't always know how to help after divorce, and hurting people can slip through the cracks. This workbook hands pastors, counselors, and group leaders a biblically grounded, step-by-step roadmap they can lead with confidence, one-on-one or in a group.
Every leader gets
- A small-group Leader's Guide
- 21 chapters structured for a semester-length group
- Resources for pastors, mentors & friends
- A quick-reference index
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Share Your Story
You are not the only one. Share your story anonymously.
This book is becoming a movement of shared stories. Submit yours below. With your permission, some may later be shared as written posts, audio readings, or reels with voiceovers. Your name will never be shared unless you choose.
Thank you for trusting us with this.
Your story has been received. You are seen, and you are not alone.
Why we're collecting stories
Divorce can make people feel invisible. Shared stories remind them they're not. Every submission becomes part of a growing testimony that love, faith, and purpose survive.
whowilllovemenow.com/stories
- Published as anonymous written posts
- Recorded as audio readings
- Shared as reels with voiceovers
- Woven into an ongoing conversation of hope
Stories of healing
Every story is read and approved by our team before it appears here. A name is never shown unless someone chooses to share one.
Second Love Stories
Your story is still being written.
Healing looks different for everyone. These stories are here to remind you that even when healing takes time, divorce does not have the final word.
I thought I'd never be loved again. Now I'm remarried.
Second Love Stories
Divorce didn't destroy my faith. It deepened it.
Second Love Stories
My second marriage is healthier than my first.
Second Love Stories
You are not alone.
Your marriage may have ended, but your God-given purpose has not.
- Process grief without getting stuck.
- Rebuild your identity in Christ.
- Forgive even when it's difficult.
- Navigate finances and co-parenting.
- Break unhealthy relationship patterns.
- Find hope for your future.